Some are starting a new trend called an 'anti-christmas,' a complete rebellion against the rigid constrictions of the traditional Christmas behavior. People go on nice trips and vacations instead of going the family route. They ski or paddle or sight-see instead of listening patiently to drunken relatives at family gatherings. This requires a lot of pre-planning because you must get the Christmas gifts out early, and schedule travel accommodations and leisure activities you enjoy. It became easier to join this movement since I became a buddhist. Buddhism doesn't require the slavish adherence to holiday rituals. There is no required tree or carols or religious services. You don't have to do the same things the same way year after year. You pretty much pray for peace on earth all year long. Your acts of compassion, love, and charity go on year-round.
Anyone who has ever endured a scarring, unpleasant Christmas will understand why this movement is necessary. When everything falls apart, and the family holiday rituals become meaningless or weirdly ironic, you need a fallback position to get through a highly emotional holiday season. The 'anti-christmas' is the solution. It removes the pressure of going through the motions. It provides an alternative pleasantness to soothe one's nerves. It re-wires patterns that were once positive but now threaten to dismantle one's entire psyche. And you can design it to your own liking--which restores a feeling of control in an otherwise chaotic situation.
The Anti-Christmas. Think about it. Keep it in mind. You may need to use it some day.
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